Wednesday, December 9, 2009

One Wise Angel

“There is an old fable that tells of a time when man had grown so evil that the angels decided to take all goodness and wisdom away from him. But once taken, where would they put it? Man’s hunger for domination over everything was so insatiable that no place was safe. One angel suggested burying it deep within the earth, but the other angels knew that man would mine the earth in search of all its riches and find the goodness and wisdom, so that would not work. Another suggested the ocean, but again that idea was squelched. After pillaging the earth, man would certainly move to the ocean to strip its treasures and thereby find goodness and wisdom. What about the outer space? No, there was no way man would stop at the earth and ocean. In his quest, man would move out into space to try to conquer that as well. No, goodness and wisdom would not be safe there. Where would they put it? Finally one wise angel said, “We will put goodness and wisdom inside of man, for with everything we know about him, that is the last place he will ever look.”
And so it is to this day, all the goodness and wisdom of God and all his angels becomes buried and hidden deep within the hearts of all people of every color, every country, of every religion and belief as they learn and grow from little sweet innocent children to adults. “Lest we become as little children we shall not enter the Kingdom of God. “ It can take a life time to unlearn it all. So, to find your goodness and wisdom the richest treasure of all; you must learn to listen from the heart, where you will find the greatest treasure of all; the truth of who you are, then you will see everyone for who they really are; as perfect and innocent as little children.

If there is light in the soul

"If there is light in the soul, there will be beauty in the person. If there is beauty in the person, there will be harmony in the home. If there is harmony in the home, there will be order in the nation. If there is order in the nation, there will be peace in the world."

I have always felt very empowered by this Chinese proverb because it reminds me that peace in this world begins with me! As you join with your loved ones this Holiday Season, may you remember that your light is what will transform the event. Don't wait to see if this gathering will be less stressful this year; you can make it different by letting your light shine. No one and nothing has to change for you to let your light shine, but the benefits you reap will change you.

The Words Silent and Listen

The words silent and listen have the same letters, just mixed around. I never realized that, but it is true! Isn’t that interesting? Only when we are silent (emptying out the chaos in our minds) can we truly listen. Maybe that is why the Christmas hymn Silent Night says: "silent night, holy night."

When we are silent we can listen to our holiness.

Have a Blessed Holiday

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

God-Like Consciousness

"To be touched by a God-like experience; is to become open to a God-like consciousness..." This is one of those things that you know you could have written but didn't. Special thanks to the late, Robert A. Johnson

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

For Men Only, just kidding.

If they're not emotionally armored and anesthetized enough to be successful, they fail to get the most desirable women. If they are armored enough and anesthetized enough to succeed and to win the women of their dreams, they are faulted for not being sensitive and close. J. Kramer Ph.D/Diana Dunaway

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Too True, Too Often

I don't know what it is that you wanted to say, but this is what I would like to say;


Too True, Too Often

Too often we don't realize
What we have until it is gone
Too often we wait too late to say
"I'm sorry - I was wrong."

Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones
We hold dearest to our hearts
And we allow foolish things
To tear our lives apart.

Far too many times we let
Unimportant things into our minds
And then it's usually too late
To see what made us blind.

So be sure that you let people know
How much they mean to you
Take that time to say the words
Before your time is through.

Be sure that you appreciate
Everything you've got
And be thankful for the little things
in life that mean a lot.


- Author Unknown


Your Friend,

Tim

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

faults which we can also see in ourselves

Wouldn't it be better if we just let go, and let people be who they are? Then we'd be able to see them as they are -- with all their beauty and goodness in which we take joy, and with all their faults which we can also see in ourselves. author unknown

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Brain Washing vs Dirt

Many brains need washing on a daily basis (mine too). "Mind Viruses" are rampant, no different than dirt and just as common.
As a hypnotherapist before we can help most people we must "de-hypnotize" them first. Brain Washing can be good; no different than washing your hands or taking a bath.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Mission Statement

Mission Statement

To consistently create value for our customers, through innovative education and services that satisfy your individual needs of body, mind and soul.

Saturday, August 8, 2009

How Hypnosis and Dreaming are Connected

While dreaming one is not aware that the dream is not real. Have you ever experienced that; suddenly waking up in the night not sure where you are or what is really going on? We all have. There is nothing odd or unusual about it.

We have awakened from a self created imagined reality because our subconscious mind has been busy processing events from the preceding day. When we dream we are in a very deep trance, quite possibly the deepest trance you have ever been in.

Dreaming gives us a clear demonstration of the remarkable imaginative power our subconscious mind possesses. This power is available to us during our waking hours as well through the practice of hypnosis. There is nothing odd or unusual about hypnosis either. It is a completely natural and healthy way to clear the mind of unwanted emotional “baggage” and stress just as dreaming is.

Friday, August 7, 2009

Science only tries to know it all

Have you ever wondered where we come from and where are we going? How do we have so many gifts talents and abilities as children? How do we as children learn so effortlessly and why does it become work as we grow older? In the whole of the human race after thousands of years one would think that someone somewhere would have come to grips with fundamental as these. If science has not proven it; does that make it untrue? Of course not, what a foolish thought. Science only tries to know it all. Is there real magic or just science we do not understand?

Friday, July 31, 2009

One Soul at a Time

Yes our economy is in the dumps; temporarily. Friends and neighbors are losing their homes, jobs, marriages and the families that they have worked so hard for. People everywhere are so stressed they don’t know what to do. We have so many responsibilities and bills with little money to pay, while not having enough time for the much needed R & R. It seems there are no answers. Is there anything we can do? Is there any way we can help?

God our Creator has given us the ability to have compassion in a demanding world. We can help these people by saying “Hi!”and lending an ear, by extending a helping hand, and showing that we do care. This isn’t just about helping those in our circle of friends from work, school or church. It’s about kindness to the old lady in the grocery store, the child on the street, the neighbor in the midst of a terrible divorce, the homeless man looking for a bit of work and those with no health insurance. One kind word, a genuine smile, or the offer of assistance can turn a dismal day around, it may be the beginning of a new way with a glimmer of optimism that the future will be all right again. We have no idea of what chaos or loss they may be in. If we listen, we realize that we aren’t so bad off after all. Everywhere we go, people are in need of a kind word, a warm smile or a lending hand.

When we allow others to share their burdens they truly do divide and become more manageable. We can listen, we can offer words of comfort, and we can visit the lonely or lend a helping hand to those in need. Sometimes a solution is simple but often inconceivable when in the midst of turmoil and strife. Offer your help, it is so much better to have offered and not succeeded than to have just past them by and felt sorry later knowing we could have made a difference. Try walking in their shoes for just a moment and hear their story. Open your heart and notice the blessings that flow back to you; knowing you did the right thing. Be bold and show your kindness, it’s not out of style it is just out of use. When we show an act of kindness both the giver and the receiver are bless with good feelings but what is most interesting is that all those that watched, they too receive an equal share of good feelings too. Bless the world with you kindness today and it will come back to you. Offer yours today and make the world just a little bit better one soul at a time. Watch those around you and when someone makes eye contact, say "Hi! How are you?" Let the conversation flow, make the connection; be a friend, they too have their story.

Friday, July 24, 2009

Failure or Winnner: which are you?

"Failures do what is tension relieving, while winners do
what is goal achieving."
- Dennis Waitley

Thursday, July 23, 2009

birthing in more natural holistic way

The newest project I''m working on is a hypnosis induction for expectant mothers to help them through the birthing in more natural holistic way focusing on the mind, body and spirit of both the mother and child. If you would like to offer your experience, please do.

The ripple effect.

When I am healed; the world is healed. The ripple effect.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Scars of the Soul

"Each day we either move forward or slide backward. There is no standing still in life and the things we fail to do often leave greater scars upon the soul than do errors". From Dreams Your Magic Mirror by E. Sechrist

Friday, July 17, 2009

Teaching is Learning

What I have found is that when I teach what I have learned, my understanding rises to a higher level. As I allow my teaching to grow and evolve as my understanding deepens.

Time the illusion that it is.

Enter into the eternal silence and hear the still small voice.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Oh my God! ... Where is it???....

Nothing will reveal the depth of a mind like stating the obvious.
The Illusive Obvious ... Oh my God! ... Where is it???....

My Credentials

HMI Accreditation and Approvals

  • ACCETAccredited by the Accrediting Council for Continuing Education and Training (ACCET), an accrediting agency recognized by the U.S. Department of Education.
  • DETCAccredited by the Distance Education and Training Council (DETC), an accrediting agency recognized by the U.S. Department of Education.
  • Approved by the California Board of Behavioral Science Examiners (BBS) as a provider for continuing education credits for California licensed Marriage and Family Therapists and licensed Clinical Social Workers.
  • Approved by the California Board of Registered Nursing (BRN) as a provider of continuing education credits for Registered Nurses.
  • Approved by the Dental Board of California (DBC) as a provider of continuing education credits for licensed Dentists and Dental Assistance.
  • Approved by the Hypnotherapist's Union Local 472 as an educational provider for Certification in Hypnotherapy.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Ego is good, Ego is necessary, Ego can be mastered.

Everything that resides on the other side, in the realm of the unconscious, appears to the ego as being outside the natural human realm; thus it is magical, it is supernatural. R.J.Johnson; We

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Physical and Emotional Thoughts and Feelings

Problems is a relationship typically occur after the honeymoon stage and communication has broken down. The physical, can be male or female, needs to constantly know where they stand in the relationship. They seem very insecure and they really do need to hear this. But the idea in therapy is to educate both partners if possible. The Physical should not expect it and the Emotional needs to understand that there are ways to communicate caring.
The Physical and the Emotional types have different thought processes. The Physical first gets the thought which in turn is felt as a feeling and finally as an emotional reaction. Whereas the Emotional first get the thought which becomes the emotional feeling and then becomes a physical reaction. Very different thought processes that we had assumed are the same until now.

Priorities of the Physical and Emotional Sexual Personality Types

Physical Sexual Behavior Priorities
1. Relationships, Sex
2. Children, Family
3. Hobbies
4. Work

Emotional Sexual Behavior Priorities
1. Work
2. Hobbies
3. Family
4. Sex

Understanding one's sexual behaviour patterns is very useful especially in a relationship where the interactions can get complicated unless this model of behavior is known. The physical and the emotional have very different priorities that cause a lot of attraction but in time it get old. Even if only one partner had understanding of these behaviors many relationship problems are eased or eliminated.
Consider this scenario. She, (the Physical) felt sexually unfulfilled by his (the Emotional) apparent lack of interest as she called it. She became increasingly frantic as he became more and more disinterested, trying everything she could think of to get any kind of sexual activity as he slowly turned off. She became what is known as a "Flaming Physical". This is a common occurrence. She began wearing sexy provocative clothes and started to use sexual innuendos; he became more and more emotionally traumatized always acting like the strong quiet type as if he owned all the greatest secrets of life, love and of course sex. He controlled the relationship. She suffered. It wasn't really anybodies fault, they just didn't understand this critial way of understanding thier behaviours. Understanding this can make all the difference between happiness and divorce.