Problems is a relationship typically occur after the honeymoon stage and communication has broken down. The physical, can be male or female, needs to constantly know where they stand in the relationship. They seem very insecure and they really do need to hear this. But the idea in therapy is to educate both partners if possible. The Physical should not expect it and the Emotional needs to understand that there are ways to communicate caring.
The Physical and the Emotional types have different thought processes. The Physical first gets the thought which in turn is felt as a feeling and finally as an emotional reaction. Whereas the Emotional first get the thought which becomes the emotional feeling and then becomes a physical reaction. Very different thought processes that we had assumed are the same until now.
Would be nice for you to reference where the E & P sexuality concepts come from. Dr Kappas and the Kappassian Hypnosis school : HMI.
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