Emotional and Physical Sexuality

The sexuality of an individual begins about the age of ten to fourteen by trying to duplicate the behaviors that they see in those around them. It is adopted from the secondary caregiver who is usually the father. The adolescent whether male or female will attempt to emulate the father's sexuality (behavior) and as a result will then pick a partner similar in behavior to their mother. If the primary caregiver was male then the roles would be reversed.
Sexuality (behavior patterns) develop as a personality trait. Most sexuality tests in the 70% emotional to 70% physical range for the average individual. If the test is higher this indicates an exaggerated behavior that often causes problems in relationships and can usually be easily corrected with the proper understanding.

Dreams Have Three Distict Purposes

We all have three distinct types of dreams as we sleep which are classified by the stage of the night in which the may occur.

Processing; this is the wish-full thinking stage - During this stage the mind's attempts to sort out the thoughts and activities of the day.

Predictive; is a precognitive stage - Here the mind attempts to predict the events that may occur in the future.

Venting; deals with overload - The mind attempts to release or vent out the overload of message units accumulated during the day. This is were the business is finished and the mind is done with it. This is the most important stage of the three stages and most suitable for analysis. This clearly shows the growth a person has mastered. This is very useful to the therapist as an accurate gauge of the clients progress in therapy.

The Synergistic Five Elements of Daily Activity

The five elements of daily activity can work together synergistically to create a result greater than the individual elements combined. First, it is important to understand that the subconscious mind does not know the difference between reality and a fantasy created in the mind. Therefore, the five elements function on a subconscious level to replace negative beliefs, behaviors, values etc., with positive fantasies. The fantasies, being more productive, become the ‘new’ reality, thereby increasing the success, happiness, finances, relationships etc, for the individual. This ultimately results in congruent interaction between body, mind and behavior. The conscious mind can accomplish this by directly controlling what goes into the subconscious because of the ‘five elements”.

Each of the five elements functions in a specific way to bring this about.

Belief: That we are actively acting out our programming perfectly and therefore we are successful. If we are not happy with our result, we simply change the program and we will automatically be just as successful with the new program as with the previous, because the mind cannot fail at accomplishing its programming.

Daily reinforcement: Daily reinforcement is necessary to reprogram the un-wanted program at the subconscious level to the point where it will become an automatic permanent response.

Scripting: Scripting is an ideomotor response from the central nervous system that bypasses the 'critical area of mind' resulting in direct conscious access to the subconscious mind.

Time of day: This refers to the last half hour before sleep, also known as the 'magic 30 minutes'. At this time of day, the mind is overloaded and in a natural stage of hypnosis. So when something is taken in at this time it goes into the 'pre-cognitive' dream stage for processing.

Dreams: Once the new program is taken in, the old program will vent through the 'venting' stage of dreaming. The mind is now prepared for what is coming up. That it to say, it is then prepared for greater success.

We can take conscious control of an unconscious natural process to increase our success in any given area. We are effectively reprogramming our subconscious limitations of our ‘life script’. Instead of aiming for a ten and only hitting a six, we will hit the ten and feel good about it, no self-sabotage, no procrastination, and no will power, just harmony throughout the mind, body and behavior.

What is You Life Script and What does it Mean?

"Life Script" refers to the programming the mind accepts. From the time, a child is born and even before, the environment affects the child in some way. The child accepts everything presented to it without question. This is a very suggestible time in the child's development, therefore it absorbs everything it sees, hears or experiences as truth. The child learns to react to the environment in a certain way and develops a certain approach to living.

Eventually the critical mind begins developing and evaluates all experiences against previous experience, like a filter. The more experiences the child has, the stronger and thicker the filter becomes. The child learns to limit its behavior; both upper and lower limits build on the developed self-concept, self-worth, known abilities etc. This is the child’s life script; a complete set of beliefs and values that serve as a guide through out life.

The adult retains the limitations accepted in childhood. The adult's degree of success or failure, enjoyed or endured depends on these beliefs and values. Once beyond the success limit some form of self-sabotage will prevent further success. This brings the person back down to a 'comfort zone'. Similarly, as the person drops to a lower limit, motivation will prompt the individual to get busy and create more success and bring the person up into their ‘life script’ comfort zone.

The life script concept accentuates the mind's remarkable ability to succeed precisely with-in the limits imposed by the life script, never above or below for any length of time. This therefore shows that if the mind can work with this incredible degree of precision with a given 'life script' then if we simply enhance the life script, we will also enhance the success enjoyed in one's life.

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As of late I have been testing the Kangen 501 water machine. It seems to live up to the many claims and does in fact produce the strong acid and alkaline waters as advertised. We bought the machine because of our research over the years indicated that an alkaline body is the healthiest body. Being in preventative health care we of course were very interested. This machine is very capable of producing seven types of water. Two are used in the home to eliminate many toxic chemicals. For drinking, it make three strengths. It is alkalizing, anti-oxidant, micro-clustered and oxygen rich all to the benefit of a healthier body, mind and spirit. The final use is for beauty water that give the skin the optimal pH for a healthy glow.

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Relationships; How important are they to you?

There is something “Rotten in the state of Denmark” relationships break apart like dried leaves on a windy cold fall day, from what had once been hot vernal intimate passion. Why? It is now time to cultivate new attitudes and learn new behaviors that will create greater love, joy and happiness and extent our intimate relationships into our golden years. Is it possible? Yes, there is a better way? Can some people really extend the “honeymoon” stage of relationship indefinitely? Yes, and I would like to show you how.

This is a short intro into intimate relationships as see from the perspective of the Emotional and Physical Sexuality stand point. This is a view point that is well established within certain successful sectors of the relationship counseling support system based on the well known work of Dr. John Kappas M.D. Of the nearly 10,000 individuals that book appointments, 70% are there for relationship counseling. That is a lot of people, 100 hypnotherapists work there to handle that heavy case load and this has been going on for years.

This is important for you to understand. It seems a bit complicated at first as all new paradigms are, but when you stick with it, you will see a very different world. Not one that leaves you wondering, “What the heck happened?” This will leave you wondering “How good can it get?” I wish I would have known this years ago, life would be so different now. It’s not too late; in fact it is just in time, the perfect time for you to learn this life changing concept.

Can you relate to one of these two personality types? This has nothing to do with if you are male or female, all you ladies will be glad to hear of that. A man or a woman can be an “emotional sexual” or a “physical sexual”. This is in reference to behavior patterns learned early in life, usually from our parents. These learnings are unconscious learnings so deeply buried within the subconscious we really aren’t aware that they even exist, unless we make a deliberate effort to study these things, which you are. That’s the good news and there is much more to come that I want to share with you, because I know how valuable you will soon see this to be to you personally and all your relationships.

I would like to start with a quote from Florence Henderson, remember her. She was the wonderful mom on the “Brady Bunch”. What a happy family! One we all dream of, even us men, we really do. Sometimes it seems men and women are hard wired for hardship and pain the reason; because nobody had taught us any differently, until now. It will all become clear that this is not really true, when you begin to understand the basis of our behaviors. This is where E & P comes in, remember emotional and physical sexuality. So, listen up the story is about to get more interesting.

This is how Florence describes E & P, “The Physical (she) felt constantly unfulfilled sexually by the Emotional’s so-called lack of interest. The more disinterested he appeared, the more frantic she became in her attempts to engage him in any kind of sexual activity. The harder she tried, the more he was turned off. She became the “flaming Physical”, wearing low-cut, tight-fitting clothes, always throwing sexual innuendos around, while he became a “traumatized Emotional” acting quiet and dignified, as if he were carrying the great secrets about life, love and yes, SEX. Florence Henderson January 15, 1991.

Sound familiar? Keep reading it will be even more familiar and you will if you already haven’t noticed your behavior in one of the two scenarios. Rarely is someone entirely E or P but is a combination of the two. But this is enough for today. Respond and show your interest and I’ll do the same. My book is coming, get the pieces here first and tell your friends.